God and Adam were talking in the Garden of Eden
Adam said to God. “How come you made Eve so stunning, that smile, that long flowing hair, how she moves.” His eyes blinked in wonder.
God said. “Why Adam that would be, so you would pay attention her and would be attracted to her.”
“Oh, I am that,” Adam responded, “then how come you made her so charming and so much fun to be with and smell so sweet.”
“Very simple my only man” God smiled. “you would love her and be devoted to taking care of her.”
“Makes sense to me.” Adam was still puzzled. “Then how come you made her so…. dumb.”
“Oh Adam.” God chuckled. “that is easy, I wanted her to love you too.”
Females are a gift from our Almighty God, they are not dumb. He gave them to us for procreation and as a companion. We do have our differences for sure in thinking and many very different habits but without females, we are empty and lost.
When I originally played with the idea of writing a romance novel or short story from a man’s point of view, it blew me away. I realized I had known some 38 females in my life at one time or another in my past 60 plus years. Most of them walked away after only a few days, some lasted a few months, two of them I was married too. But what common thread keeps that us together and occasionally drives us apart? Here are the first names of both close friends, actual girlfriends, one is very dear niece, two wives and two daughters- in- law that have touched my life, in some way, that I have not forgotten any of them.
I was a party with church kids and out of the crowd this lovely woman appeared, very long black hair with as sweet smile and Indian like features, very cute. She got really close to me, I have never been this close to a female before and it felt good and yet weird. She grabbed hand and sat with me in the house and then in a car later and wouldn’t let go. Is this a potential girlfriend? I was enjoying it immensely. I got her phone number and found she was staying at a group home out of town. Why a group home? She was abused by her father who wanted to kill her, the home was for safety. Well, we started to date, I really did like her and enjoyed attention I was getting, she did everything she could keep my attention. I went to her group home a couple times and the last time I went there really, she gave me big kiss when I left. I had never been kissed before. I had a real charming and lovely girlfriend. I had to leave for a week to sea duty in the us navy and when it returned I called for a date.
Much to my shock and horror she said no. Her other boyfriend came back to her and she accepted his engagement ring. She was not longer interested, I got mad at God for this. What are you doing God, I asked, angry at Him. I was facing numerous problems anyway and God didn’t seem to be there. Okay, either you show me yourself or I quit, I stated flatly. Long story short in the coming years, God show many things to me to prove his love for me. I went to her again where she lived in different city I thought maybe I could catch this girl again. She was married but, welcome me sweetly. We had nice talk, I met her husband. Well, back to the drawing board. I was very lonely, but God was working on me. I learned later that the group home would not allow her to leave unless she got married and then she could leave. She had used me. I don’t recall her ever saying to me that she loved me.